When thinking of the holidays, what comes to mind? Ugly sweaters? Gingerbread cookies? Presents? The winter holidays have been a huge part of American culture throughout history, however over the years they have come to connote many contradictions. Over eating on Thanksgiving, New Year’s resolutions to lose weight, and trampling each other over Black Friday sales don’t exactly reflect the holiday time emphasis on celebrating family and friends; inadvertently people defy the true meaning of the holidays.
Most people are familiar with the phrase “happiness is wanting what you already have”, although it seems as if few actually embrace the idea. In recent years, it seems as if materialism has overshadowed the simple joys of decorating and spending time with family.
“I really believe it’s better to give than to receive, and I think that’s the whole point of the holidays.” commented junior Franny Lugo, “It’s everyone’s personal decision to spend [money], but it should be the thought that counts as opposed to the price”.
Perhaps due to constant advertisements convincing buyers that they need that new blanket with sleeves or pair of scented fuzzy socks, there is too much of an emphasis on “stuff”. Consequently, many holiday shoppers feel the pressure to find the perfect gift, and expect the same in return. Americans are estimated to spend 5 billion dollars this holiday season alone (USA Today).
There is nothing wrong with giving gifts on Christmas, however that is not the only way to let people know they are cared for. Sea King Christopher Rieger often volunteers with the Friendship Circle to give back to the community. The volunteers spend time with families and children with special needs. “[By] volunteering your own time to help your community…it feels like you are really making a difference, and it’s rewarding to have the firsthand experience of spending time with the kids rather than just donating money.” (Rieger).
The weeks between Christmas and New Year’s offer a hiatus from work and school, and offer a chance for families to come together and celebrate each other’s company. It is the one time of year when “merry” is the universal mood, and people are encouraged to share in the festivities with neighbors, families, and friends. Therefore, it is necessary to take a step back and appreciate the company of loved ones, and be thankful for what we have rather than waste time stressing over the perfect gift. To quote Charlotte Carpenter, “if Christmas isn’t found in your heart, you won’t find it under a tree.”